Many women feel huge sexual excitement while practicing in anal sex, but how do you have anal sex without pain?
That’s a question with several responses, let’s start with the desire. Do you really feel desire to do it, or is it just to please your mate? When we do something that we really want, everything is easier and desirable, after all sex should be something pleasurable. In other words, it is possible to feel lots of pleasure with anal sex, but you have to be relaxed. The anus is a region full of nerve endings and it is sensitive. If the woman gets tense, she will contract the muscles and the process will be a bit painful and complicated.
The idea is to start performing anal sex after many preliminaries, including kisses, caresses, oral sex, embraces, so that the woman becomes very stimulated, and then, prepared for sex.
It is important to know that the condom plays a very important part in this moment, because through anal sex more diseases are likely to be transmitted. When you shift from anal sex to the vaginal sex, you should change the condom as the many bacterias in the anus may cause a series of infections.
Use lubrication to facilitate anal penetration, as the anus is not very resilient and lubricated like the vagina.
A good tip to make things easier and more exciting count on the assistance of anal sex toys, as the anal dildo, the anal plug and the anal anesthetic. The dildo is an object that simulates like a penis and the plug is a toy to heat the the moment for a more pleasurable ending.
Another great tip on how to make anal sex memorable is to begin with caressing the anus, then introducing the finger and only after a while followed by slow easy penetration which will cause the anus to relax and be enjoyable for both. But the best tip is to b very sexually aroused!
June 18th, 2010 as 11:49 am
Great post! Anal sex really hurts! That butt plugs actually help to reduce the pain when used with lubes! I recommend it!